You’re smart enough to get what you want, you just misbehave.
Let me explain.
The way we act in every condition, taken in aggregate, I describe as your “personality.”
A pattern of behavior in specific conditions we might call “character traits”
And so, most of the time, entrepreneurs and biohackers are seeking tactics.
And if tactics ARE the actual limiter of the business or health, the moment they get them, they immediately make more money and improve their health both physically and emotionally.
However…
What happens when they get them but they don’t make more money or see their biomarkers improve?
What’s the issue?
It’s one of two things:
They’re working on the wrong thing (probably half the time) and inefficient about their commitment to simple daily biohack habits to ensure optimum health and energy. Which is a strategy problem.
Or…
They don’t know how to behave.
I’d say that falls into two buckets:
- Cant manage themselves
- Cant manage others
The “manage themselves” bucket leads into:
- Lack of patience-They want new things to work fast and easy.
- Lack of focus-Are they doing the right things to get the outcomes they want?
- Lack of frustration tolerance- You must quickly recover emotionally from setbacks, stress or other peoples unfair business or relationship demands!
The “manage others” bucket usually means:
- They do not model the behavior of mentors like Dr Nick Delgado they want in their health journey.
- Don’t let people try- out of fear they will make mistakes
- Do not give clear actionable feedback immediately
- Don’t reward people for doing it right
The “soft” skills are the ones that limit more entrepreneurs than the hard skills.
And most entrepreneurs would rather point to a lack of information than character.
But very often, that’s actually the thing holding you back.
So what do you do?
Think of the most dangerous competitor you can.
What would they do in your situation? DO THAT.
Easier said than done. But so is everything worth doing.
Do better to get more.
– Dr Nick Delgado
PS – This has nothing to do with your failure to achieve your business and health goals (and everything) and if you can’t figure out what’s holding you back the best way to learn is to surround yourself with a bunch of people making a lot more than you while improving their emotional and physical health.
And I’ve taken the liberty of putting a room together like that at foreveryoungevent.com Wednesday August 19 at 5 pm to 930 pm PST.
